Boundaries…sometimes required.

I like structure, scheduling, plans, routines, rules, you know…it helps me manage my anxiety. Sure, I sometimes also like to be spontaneous and I love to be surprised, but there is a time and a place for that. Originally, Sam and I were supposed to have the weekend off, with his son, but then because…

I like brunch

Brunch with the girls was nice. It’s fun to get together and chat. Usually we do drinks at night, but one of the Heather’s has to work early tomorrow…so brunch. So now its 7pm..Sam works tomorrow at 8am, and is telling me he’s tired and going to bed. It makes me annoyed, which is stupid…

T.G.I.F

It’s Friday night…I got done work early and I’m off all weekend! And today is Profit Share Day at mt job…I get a bonus 👌 Remember TGIF? I’m an 80s kid….and I lived for Friday Night and Saturday Morning’s with my TV show friends in the 90s. Family Matters Sabrina The Teenage Witch Clueless Boy…

Why am I so Jealous?

I don’t want to share. I’m possessive and needy. I also feel like it’s out of my control. I try my best to brush things off, let it slide, choose my battles, but I always end up being a catty bitch about it…always. It’s an issue. I feel like it is getting a little better…in…

It’s My Half Birthday!

It’s a thing…I swear! Snapchat told me this morning when I took my picture: I asked Sam why we didn’t celebrate it, jokingly, because I am incredibly extra like that…he said we can, so we did. He came home from work with flowers: And also some presents: And then…he took me out to dinner: I…

A Case Of The Mondays

Today wasn’t bad…I just feel extra sleepy these last few days. The morning started off swimmingly, slightly anxious because I had to go work at the office today as I was elected to be the Occupational Health & Safety representative, but I felt cute so it was nice to go in and see some of…

think retail therapy my new addiction…

I like shopping, not even necessarily making any purchases, just browsing through all of the pretty things makes me happy. I did get some new shoes today and a sun hat, such great deals! We took my Step Mom out for brunch for Mothers Day, it was nice spending time with her and my dad….

Saturday Night

After work today we went to see my mom and bring her mother’s day present to her. I know…I’m a great daughter! She loved it. But we didn’t spend much time together as her great granddaughter is spending the night, so we played with the baby. Sophia is going to be 2 and she is…

I’m not sure what to make of it all

I didn’t go to the interview. Sam and I talked this morning before he left for work and his interview, and I realized I don’t want to leave my current job. While I’m not in love with it, and don’t want to be there forever, I think it’s best for now with Sam changing directions…